AJ & McCall: Couple Money Stealing Debate @8

Oh boy, a husband asked AJ & McCall for advice during the Debate At 8 and it doesn’t go his way. Joe is married to Jessie but has a kid with Veronica, the kid is in college, and they have a great relationship despite Joe being married. Veronica hates Joe’s relationship with his baby mama. Veronica asked Joe for help because she was in a bind and Joe took $5000 out of Jessie’s account and gave it to his baby mama. Joe says since they’re married their money is their money. What do you think of the situation?